What if your straight-A student still feels totally inadequate? Surprising new research reveals that academic overachievers often struggle with crippling self-doubt and criticism from peers, feeling like anxious “try-hards” despite their success. Dive deep with Tracy on why competence requires more than intelligence – it’s that elusive “I’m okay” state of mind.

This episode unpacks the painful paradox of these high-flying students who ace every test yet constantly fear they’ll be “found out” as frauds. Though they hide behind stellar grades and extracurriculars, their inner critic whispers, “you’re not good enough.” 

During the pivotal tween and teen years, even top students grapple with secret insecurities while facing judgment from classmates. The pressure can be crushing. From imposter syndrome to the urge to downplay their gifts,  Tracy candidly explores why overachievers often struggle to appreciate their talents.

Here’s what you’ll discover:

• Ways to show how to have self-compassion in your perfectionistic child
• Modeling vulnerability so kids feel safe to drop their exhausting facades 
• My framework to enhance emotional intelligence – not just book smarts
• Simple daily steps to help teens connect with their feelings and believe in themselves

“Competence is not just about what you know; it’s about believing in yourself, feeling confident in your body, and being open to life’s challenges. That’s the true power of self-awareness.” ~ Tracy Crossley